Saturday, Dec. 01, 2007
Strangeness and Coolness: Why boys are cooler than girls)
Now this is strange....
I don't know why but I've always had an affinity for boy...friends more than girl ..friends. Why is that? I don't know I just really like the company of guys over girls I guess. Perhaps since I was a kid and I really was more of a tomboy than not. I thin guys are so cool... girls that are cool (in my mind) are usually more boylike. Like they either act more like a boy or are more tough/strong/etc. Not y'know cool b/c they dress nice or are really soft lol. I think that's something that guys would like about girls, esp. if they liked they girl y'know *wink*.
Well at my job it's odd cuz the part-timers are in and out during the day and tend to talk more than the full-timers. The PTrs are all in college, some graduates some underclass. So they are a younger group but it's really strange cuz the girls are all like fab, y'know. One, which talks to me some, is sooo cute in her clothes and she drives this hot car, like a porsche but i'm not sure what it is, but it looks like a rich person race car! She keeps her hair like Hillary Duff and she has an attitude. Another girl that works there just had lasik surgery (in case you don't know lasik is surgery on the eyes so you don't have to wear glasses anymore and avg cost is $4000), and her dad paid for it. She's also a glamour girl to look at. Talk about well-off...strange that they even work.
The boys...well they aren't "cool" as I think of it, but it's still kinda cool to have them there, even if they don't talk to me. They also seem to be well-off and drive nicer cars than I. THere's this one guy Matt who does talk to me but he teases me all the time and asks if I'm getting his work done consistently. He thinks it's funny and at first it might've been but he does it everytime I see him (besides other irritating speech) so it's REAL old now. Kinda like when I was like 11 I went to SixFlags (it was called something else then) with my dad and uncle and my uncle teased me about going on this really big rollercoaster that I wouldn't go on. After that whenever I talked to him he teased me about it, even up til the last time we talked like last year O_O I'm 27!! Sometimes guys are so jake.
At any rate, Matt's really cute did I mention? Not as cute as my love but still nice looking to some extent. Not like falling over gorgeous ha! But cute enough. So I usually just ignore him and sometimes I don't even answer him it's so old. Sometimes I'll see him and just say hi as a greeting and instead of an answer he'll say his line of me doing his work. A few times I'm like "you can't even say hi.", then he said hi.
Well, strangest thing, on Friday I saw Matt and he was looking very nice b/c he was doing No-Shave November and suddenly he's all shaved nice and had his hair cut. He has like dark red/brown hair. Anyway, I was by the files and he was over there and I was like "I'm following you" I say that sometimes b/c the walk ways are small it's like you're following the person in front of you. He said something in response and then when I got to my file it was down near the floor and he was above me. He said man now I forgot the batch I was looking for, you made me forget. Then as he turned back to go look at his computer again he said "Ow, I like the red, I like the red, I didn't notice that before". At first I didn't know what he was talking about and then suddenly I realized he meant my hair. Since the last time I got it braided it's red mixed in. I was caught offguard and then I said thanks. It was odd since he NEVER says anything to me y'know. Then he gives me a compliment. But I'm not sure if it was because he said a compliment (and not stupid teasing stuff) or the way he gave the compliment which made it so cool. It stuck in my head for sure and made me smile afterwards. The guys at work are cool in such ways as the above example but they are all so worldly!!
Now tonight Luke and I went to dinner with a couple, Andy & Sasha. We've known them more than a year and before they were married too ^__^ It's so cute. Andy however used to make me sooo sick. I'm not sure, he just seemed arrogant and would say things that made me wonder what he really thought. Andy was the college pastor at our church before they moved to another city. They were in town and so we met up with them. I'm glad too. It was strange. I mean he's strange...he's a very nice looking man, but at times I thought he wasn't, it depended on his hair and facial hair i think. But tonight he looked different, I think it was his hair! Yea, that makes sense since (cents :P) i've seen him with and without the beard/stanche, but his hair did seem different. It definitely was a nice look on him. He kept looking at me too, I don't know why but I think he wanted to include me or make up for times he disregarded me. Strange. But Andy's like cool and he's NOT worldly at all. I actually think, besides that stuff that used to bug me about him, that he has a good attitude. Times also has been when I thought him distant but I think marriage has drawn that out of him.
So is it bad that I can see the coolness in situations and people? No, coolness only comes from God. How about cuteness? Nyah. Cuteness is God's artistic supremeness. I'm just glad that God keeps my heart pure and keeps me away from desiring others. I only want to desire His will and the man He's given me. What's really strange is how Luke and I go together so well. How he is beautifully cute!! and so cool in my eyes. I love him and have thought many times about his cuteness and coolness. Wow...he's definitely handsome yummy sweetness and he's my gift from our Lord.
Now remember I haven't said a word about smartness or beauty :P
bluepetal at 12:31 am